Guys & older women...

Amrita Singh: 9 Feb 1958; Saif Ali Khan: 16 Aug 1970 (12yrs younger...he muz've been outta his mind!!??)

Kareena Kapoor: 21 Sep 1980; Shahid Kapur: 25 Feb 1981 (1 yr...ok la...5mths younger)

Aishwarya Rai: 1 Nov 1973; Vivek Oberoi: 3 Sep 1976 (3yrs younger)

Aishwarya Rai: 1 Nov 1973; AB Jnr: 5 Feb 1976 (history repeats...3yrs younger...for illustration purpose only...not that I njoy putting his name nxt to this bitch!)

Abhishek...Abhishek...u & I wld've made a perfect couple u know...but u choose that woman who's 3 yrs older than u!! Y? Y? Y? 

If u're wondering what this post is all abt...it's all coz I was woken up @ 9.30am on my SUNDAY to babysit coz Mom's going to the market & Dad's gone to wash the car & Sis is having her post-delivery-massage!!!  I'm bored looking at a sleeping baby, so b4 I get tempted to wake Amsyar up to play wif him...I'm sitting here taking note of the trend of guys marrying older women.  I've always been against the idea...I dunno why...Ok, once upon a time, I was adamant that my man has to be abt 3-5yrs older than me, going by the theory that since female mature (mentally) faster than male by 5 yrs, if the guy is the same age of me, he's actually 5yrs younger in mentality.  Thus, if he's at least 5yrs older, he'll be of the same mentality-age as me.  Now, I've been with men 10yrs older (mentally 2 yrs older than me rite?!?)...I also know guys 2yrs younger than me...if I put them together, the younger one is more mature than the older one!!  So to hell with that stupid theory.  It's all in the man himself.  In fact, recently, I had a very interesting conversation wif my quibbling-buddy Maslin while we were strolling @ East Coast re. this trend.

But still...I'm against the idea...y??  Mayb coz my parents are orthodox & will nvr agree to us marrying younger guys...I wonder if it'd be a different story if we didn't have a younger bro eh!?  Wld they hav been more receptive to the idea?!

I see a lot of men dating/marrying older women these days, age gap ranging from 1yr to 5yrs!  I take my hats off to these couples!  I don't think it's the women who goes for younger guys (unless I'm wrong!), but I think it's the guys who are more receptive to the idea of dating/marrying older women. 

Thus, it amazes me how guys are more receptive to the idea of dating/marrying an older women than women dating/marrying younger guys!!  The scariest star-couple illustration is Saif & Amrita.  They seemed alright...but wif stardom today, even Saif has strayed for a younger (than Amrita) woman...giving excuses like "I love my wife...but I'm not in love wif her" (Blardy hell!!).

On a separate note, since the last few yrs, I seem to attract younger men!!  The older men are too immature mentally & find me too mature for my age!  It's been scaring the shit outta me if God cld've fated me for a younger guy!  Afterall, I always end up getting what I feared most!